When does it start? And more importantly, when does it end?

When does it start? And more importantly, when does it end?
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Compared to the nine months of pregnancy, childbirth lasts only a few hours - although it seems endlessly long. And it is these few hours that occupy the minds of expectant mothers and their partners the most.

The questions, fears and worries around childbirth are considerably more than around the whole pregnancy.

When will labour start and when will it end?
Will I recognise the signs of labour even though I haven't given birth yet?
How long will it take?
Will I be able to manage the pain or will I need an epidural?
Will they hook me up to a fetal monitor?
What if labour doesn't progress?
What if I have such a fast labour that we don't get to the hospital in time?

In this article we will try to give you answers to these and many other questions.

You can rest assured.
The fears and doubts that come with impending labour are perfectly normal and understandable.
It doesn't matter at all if you are a first-time or a multiparous mother. Every birth is different and unique.

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1. The passing of the mucus plug

A mucus plug is a transparent drop of mucus that closes the lower part of the cervix in pregnancy.

For more detailed information about the mucus plug, read our article:
Mucusplug in pregnancy: when does it form, what does it look like, how does it leave?

If you develop a bloody mucus discharge (pink or brownish-red), it means that the cervix is gradually starting to dilate. It may be a signal that labour is about to start.

The process of labour will usually start within 24 to 48 hours after the mucus plug comes off, but in many cases it can be several days or weeks.

Attention!
If the discharge suddenly turns bright red or heavy bleeding occurs, contact your doctor or seek the nearest medical attention immediately.

The only real sign of labour starting is frequent and regular uterine contractions.

2. Regular contractions

Contractions are uterine contractions that may be regular or irregular.

Childbirth usually starts with light contractions that resemble abdominal cramps during menstruation or digestive problems.
They are usually accompanied by frequent visits to the toilet.
Often the woman does not pay much attention to them. She only notices them when they become more pronounced.

How do I know if my contractions are regular?

  • The length of the contraction is 40 to 60 seconds
  • the interval between each contraction (the time from the start of one contraction to the start of the next) is 5 minutes
  • each contraction is at regular intervals for 15-20 minutes
  • during contractions the intensity of the perceived pain is constant (the pain does not diminish)
  • changing the position of the parturient does not affect the contraction activity of the uterus

3. Amniotic fluid outflow

A proportion of births, approximately 15%, begin with amniotic fluid rupture. After amniotic fluid drainage, regular contractions usually occur within 12 to 24 hours and labour begins.

Only a small percentage of women experience a sudden amniotic fluid flow.
It is not uncommon for amniotic fluid to flow slowly, a little at a time.

In any case, it is necessary to go to the hospital after the amniotic fluid has drained.

Amniotic fluid is a whitish or slightly pink liquid.
If it is greenish or cloudy, do not delay leaving.

4. Maturity of the cervix

During labor, the cervix softens, shortens, and moves from a posterior position (pointing toward the coccyx) to a forward position (pointing toward the pubic bone).
It gradually thins and turns into a birth gate.

Your obstetrician will detect the fourth sign of an incipient labour when you are admitted to the delivery room.
He or she will assess the obstetric findings by vaginal examination and inform you of the next expected course of action.

The condition of the cervix is assessed in the following characteristics:

  • length
  • dilation (opening of the cervical canal)
  • orientation (towards the coccyx, in the middle, forward - towards the pubic bone)
  • consistency (firm/soft)
  • cervico-corporeal angle (this is an assessment of the steepness of the narrowing at the internal cervical gate)
  • urgency (this is the relationship of the lowest part of the fetus, most often the head, to the pelvic entrance)

The course of labour

1.

  • begins with: the onset of the first regular contractions
  • ends: opening of the cervix to 10 centimetres and complete disappearance of the birth gate
  • duration: 10-12 hours in a primiparous woman, 6-8 hours in a multiparous woman

2. II. period of labour - expulsion

  • begins: at the moment of complete disappearance of the birth canal, when the cervical rims fuse with the vaginal wall to form a single birth canal and the birth canal is ready for delivery
  • ends: with the birth of the foetus
  • duration: 30-40 minutes in a primiparous woman, 20-30 minutes in a multiparous woman

3. III. period of labour - postpartum period

  • begins: with delivery of the fetus
  • Ends with: delivery of the placenta and membranes
  • duration: approx. 20 minutes

First period of labour: opening

Every woman who gives birth at term and without a caesarean section goes through the three phases of the first period of labour.

The first phase: early or latent

In this phase, the cervix gradually softens and opens to 3 centimetres.
This is the longest and fortunately least intense phase of labour.

It can last for a few hours, but can also last for days or weeks without stronger contractions.

Characteristic signs of uterine contractions in this phase:

  • lasting 30 to 45 seconds, sometimes shorter
  • they tend to be mild to moderate
  • regular or irregular with intervals of 5 to 12 minutes
  • the intervals between contractions become progressively shorter
  • some women do not even notice them
  • do not disappear after a change of position or, for example, after a shower

Sometimes towards the end of the opening phase of labour (when there are 5-minute intervals between contractions) it is time to be taken to the hospital.

The time of departure should also be adjusted to the distance of the hospital from where you are staying.

Remember!
You should leave for the hospital immediately if:

  • amniotic fluid has drained, especially if it is cloudy or green
  • you have a pale red discharge
  • you can't feel the fetus moving

If you have no such problems, call your doctor or midwife if you are in any doubt.

How will you feel?
The most common symptoms at this stage of labour are:

  • Back pain (persistent or only during contractions)
  • cramps similar to menstruation
  • nausea
  • diarrhoea
  • feeling of heat in the abdomen
  • mucus discharge

Don't be alarmed, it doesn't mean you'll have all the symptoms.
Maybe just one or two.

You may feel a wide range of emotions, from excitement to uncertainty, fearfulness to feelings of happiness and relaxation.

Table.

What can you do? What can your birth partner do?
  • Relax.
  • Use relaxation techniques (from the antenatal preparation course) if they help you.
  • Don't start breathing exercises yet so you don't exhaust yourself prematurely.
  • Use the calming influence on your wife.
  • Do relaxation exercises together, a gentle massage will also help.
  • Keep the parent in a positive mood, keep a sense of humour and pass it on to the parent.
  • Time passes more quickly in a good mood.
  • Make yourself comfortable.
  • Make her comfortable.
  • Give her confidence and be the support she needs.
  • Watch your contractions:
  • Intervals of contractions
  • their duration
  • regularity
  • Watch the contractions.
  • Keep a notebook and take notes.
  • Record the time the contraction started and the duration of the contraction. This will make it easier to keep track of the regularity/irregularity of the contraction.
  • If the intervals shorten to less than 10 minutes, pay even more attention to them.
  • If it is night, try to sleep. You need to rest now. You may not have the opportunity later.
  • Don't worry about sleeping through the next stage of labour because the contractions will intensify.
  • If you can't sleep, don't lie down, do something instead:
  • check your maternity bag
  • take a shower
  • prepare a sandwich for your partner to take to the hospital
  • Keep calm.
  • Your possible nervousness or restlessness is unconsciously transmitted to your partner, because you communicate not only verbally but also by touch.
  • Help her to distract herself.
  • You can occupy her with light activities that effectively distract her from the birth:
  • read aloud to her
  • play cards
  • watch TV
  • take a walk with her
  • talk to her
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  • Prepare your personal belongings (documents, keys...) before going to the hospital.
  • Take your maternity bag to the car earlier so that you can give your attention to your partner when you go to the hospital.
  • Do routine activities during the day that do not require you to be away from home.
  • If you have nothing to do, try..:
  • take a walk - the upright position is great because it uses gravity. The baby's weight pushes on the cervix, which can speed up the opening
  • Watch TV
  • Tell your partner to be alert
  • contact your midwife or if you have someone to help you prepare for the birth (e.g. a doula)
  • If you are hungry, eat something light (fruit, rice sandwich...)
  • Avoid hard to digest foods - they can affect the birth (meat, fats...)
  • A full stomach can be a problem if anaesthesia is needed.
  • Do not drink acidic drinks.
  • You should eat regularly - the woman does not need to see you while doing this
  • Remember to urinate frequently - holding urine can slow down the birthing process.

If you will be experiencing the first stage of labour already in the maternity unit for various (above) reasons, most of the interventions listed in the table can be implemented there.
However, consideration must be given to the running and specifications of the unit, so communication with staff is paramount.

Second phase: active

At this stage, you are probably already in the maternity ward.

The intervals between contractions are getting shorter are 3-4 minutes.
The contractions themselves are getting longer.
By this time, the cervix is already open to about 7 centimeters.
There is less time to rest between contractions.

It may be that you did not feel the first stage, but the cervix has already gradually opened.

How will you feel?
The most common symptoms at this stage include discomfort related to the increased strength of the contractions:

  • Strong contractions won't let you talk much
  • Back pain will increase
  • You will be tired
  • Your amniotic fluid will drain spontaneously. If it doesn't, your doctor will perform an amniotomy - which is most often a completely painless procedure
  • You may be restless and have trouble relaxing
  • Or you may be so focused on having the baby that you can't notice anything else
  • Your confidence will drop and you will feel that the birth will never end
  • Or maybe just the opposite, you'll be excited and hopeful that the happy moment is coming

Table.

What can you do? What can your birth partner do? What can the hospital staff do?
  • As soon as you start having strong contractions, start breathing exercises.
  • Your midwife will direct you if you cannot control them.
  • Breathe along with her during a difficult contraction.
  • If you see your partner showing signs of hyperventilation (blurred vision, tinnitus, tingling in the fingers, dizziness), inform your midwife.
  • Regularly monitor the contractions, their frequency and intensity.
  • If the doctor allows you:
  • drink plain water - to replenish fluids and keep your mouth moist
  • eat something light
  • suck on ice cubes to refresh
  • However, some doctors won't even allow ice, in which case they will replenish your fluids with infusions.
  • If they allow you to, give your wife an ice cube or something to drink.
  • If she wishes, you can refresh her body and face with a cold wet towel.
  • She will answer questions and calm your fears.
  • Try to relax between contractions.
  • It will become increasingly difficult as the contractions become more frequent.
  • Use the relaxation techniques from the childbirth preparation course.
  • If you have not attended a course, ask your midwife for advice.
  • Remind her to relax between contractions.
  • Continue to encourage and distract between contractions.
  • You should not take it personally if a woman is not responding to you. You should support her as she needs and wants.
  • Verbally encourage and praise your wife. However, if your comments upset her, forget it.
  • Women are moody during childbirth. You, however, recognize the importance of your mission, even if you feel overwhelmed at times.
  • It can provide a calm and relaxed environment.
  • If possible, take a walk or change positions.
  • If possible, suggest a change of position or take her for a walk.
  • Provides monitoring of the baby's condition using a monitor.
  • Remember to urinate frequently. With more pressure in the pelvis, you will no longer feel the urge to urinate and may not perceive bladder fullness.
  • Make sure to urinate at least once an hour.
  • With a strong bloody discharge, perform an internal examination to check the progress of labour.
  • Watches for amniotic fluid.
  • If you feel that you need to relieve the pain with medicines, do not delay but ask for them.
  • You should not pretend that the pain does not exist. Even if your partner is not complaining, she needs to be involved.
  • Be a mediator between your partner and the staff.
  • Administer painkillers if necessary.
  • Reinforce labour by administering oxytocin as needed.
  • Performs an amniotomy - draining the amniotic fluid, at the appropriate stage of labour, if she has not gone into labour herself.

Third stage: transitional

This is the most challenging part of labour, by the end of which the cervix is fully open.
Then it's time to push.

Characteristic signs of uterine contractions in this stage:

  • they become increasingly intense
  • the intervals between them last 2 to 3 minutes
  • contractions last up to 60 seconds
  • the peak of the contraction lasts almost the entire duration of the contraction
  • some parturients experience several peaks during one contraction
  • you may feel that the contraction never ends and you cannot relax between contractions

How will you feel?

  • you may feel strong pressure in your lower back or perineum area
  • pressure on the anus with or without the urge to push
  • there may be a feeling of warmth and wetness or, conversely, a feeling of coldness and shivering
  • the bloody discharge becomes more intense
  • your legs may feel cold, in many cases they start shaking uncontrollably
  • nausea, drowsiness or vomiting are not exceptions
  • you may have trouble relaxing

Table.

What can you do? What can your birth partner do? What can the hospital staff do?
  • Don't think about what is coming.
  • Think about where you have already got to.
  • If your partner's touch is more irritating than reassuring, tell him.
  • Try the breathing techniques you have learned just for this stage of labour.
  • Between contractions, try to relax by breathing slowly and rhythmically.
  • If you feel the urge to push, breathe.
  • Push only when it is determined that the birth canal is completely ready for delivery.
  • Pushing on an insufficiently open cervix can cause it to swell and cause birth injuries to the cervix.
  • Follow the instructions of the delivery team.
  • You should obey your partner's instructions without talking too much.
  • It's better to switch to touch communication.
  • Help her relax between contractions.
  • Be an information broker between your partner and the midwife if necessary.
  • Alert the doctor or midwife if the mother develops a pushing sensation.
  • Follow the instructions of the delivery room staff.
  • She will take you to the delivery room if you are not already there.
  • Prepare you for the birth itself.
  • She will monitor the duration and intensity of contractions and the progress of labour.
  • Continues to monitor your condition and the condition of your baby.
  • Ensure you are as comfortable and supported as possible.
  • He will keep you fully informed of everything that is happening and will happen next.

During the first period of labour you will still be expecting:

  • Travel to the hospital
  • the obstetric reception
  • a consultation with the staff about your birth plan
  • administration of cleansing fluids - with your consent
  • administration of an infusion to ensure hydration
  • vaginal examination to monitor the progress of labour - performed every two to three hours
  • in the event of inadequate labour (if at any time during labour the cervical findings do not change within 3 hours), on medical indication, uterine function needs to be supported by an infusion of a solution containing the hormone oxytocin - not routinely administered, reasons will be explained to you
  • insertion of an intravenous cannula - not routinely performed
  • amniotomy
  • administration of epidural analgesia at your request - if the cervix is open to 3 to 4 cm and the uterus is regular - this is determined by the obstetrician
  • termination of labour by caesarean section (non-progressive labour, threat to the life and health of the baby or you)

Second period of labour: expulsion

From this point on, your active participation in the birth will be needed.

Now that the cervix is completely open, you need to push the baby into the world through the birth canal.

This process takes half an hour to an hour.
It can take as little as ten minutes or as long as two hours.

How will you feel?

  • At this stage, you will have difficulty detecting the onset of contractions.
  • you feel an uncontrollable urge to push
  • you feel a burst of new energy or, on the contrary, exhaustion
  • you may feel strong pressure on your anus
  • the contractions are distinct with an obvious enlargement of the uterus during contraction
  • the bloody discharge intensifies
  • there is a tightening of the vagina as the head moves
  • feeling of slippery wetness as the head emerges
  • Mental relief as you can start to push

Table.

What can you do? What can your birth partner do? What can the hospital staff do?
  • Get in position to push - depends on the practices of the hospital
  • Take care of the comfort of the labouring woman.
  • If she slips from her position, help her to settle back down.
  • They will put you on the birthing bed.
  • Simply remove the lower part of the bed and prepare everything you need for the birth.
  • Make every effort.
  • The more effectively you push and the more energy you exert, the faster the baby will be born.
  • Help her control the pushing and breathe with her - while following the instructions of the birth team.
  • They will give you support and advice during labour.
  • They will systematically monitor the condition of the fetus using a monitor.
  • When pressure is applied to the perineum, the contents of the rectum may be released.
  • Do not try to prevent this, you will disturb the rhythm of the pushing.
  • Release of urine or stool occurs frequently during labour.
  • The delivery room staff is prepared for this situation.
  • Do not let the experienced medical staff throw you off balance.
  • Even your presence is needed now:
  • You can hold her hand, as long as it does not disturb her.
  • wipe her sweaty forehead
  • do anything else that might help her
  • When the head begins to emerge, prepare for the actual birth:
  • they spread out sterile sheets
  • prepare the instruments
  • put on surgical gowns and gloves
  • disinfect the perineum
  • If necessary, they will perform a perineal incision (episiotomy) shortly before the baby is born:
  • a local anaesthetic is injected into the perineum
  • this is done at the peak of contraction - then the perineum is naturally numbed by the pressure of the head
  • the incision itself is made at the peak of contraction
  • Once the head has emerged, the baby's nose and mouth are suctioned of the amniotic fluid present.
  • The shoulders and trunk are then delivered.
  • After birth, the baby is placed on the mother's abdomen and the umbilical cord is cut.
  • They will provide postnatal care for your baby.
  • The neonatal clinic staff provides the first treatment for the newborn.
  • After the treatment, they will show the baby to you and your partner.
  • If the birth is uncomplicated, you can hold your baby in your arms.
  • They make sure that the newborn is brought to the breast in time, which is no later than 20 minutes after birth.
  • After you meet your baby, they will take him/her to the neonatal unit for a short time and then bring him/her to your room.
  • Do what is natural.
  • Push when you feel the urge and get no other instructions.
  • Take two deep breaths during a contraction:
  • at the peak of the contraction, push as hard as you can - like a stiff stool.
  • you may feel the urge more than once during one contraction
  • try to push with each urge, you can take multiple breaths
  • if you have problems during pushing or with pushing, the midwife will help you and also direct you if you lose concentration
  • Support her back during pushing.
  • If she lets you, give her ice cubes to suck on
  • Relax your whole body during pushing, including your thighs and perineum - their tension counteracts the effort of your pushing.
  • Don't get frustrated if your woman doesn't perceive you.
  • Her energy needs to be focused elsewhere.
  • She probably doesn't even have the energy to communicate with you.
  • Follow the instructions of your obstetrician or midwife:
  • If they tell you not to push, stop.
  • if you are exhausted, your doctor may advise you to rest during the contraction to give you energy
  • rest between contractions
  • Help her to relax between contractions:
  • by comforting her
  • touch
  • cool compresses on the head, neck or shoulders

During the second period of labour, you still have to:

  • the mother may not be able to exert enough pressure to deliver the baby
  • if the baby is at risk of inadequate oxygen supply during labour, the labour should be stopped quickly
  • the doctor may decide to end the labour with one of the obstetric operations, either forceps or vacuum extractor (bell), in order to protect the life and health of the baby
  • in the event of a sudden threat to the life and health of the baby or the mother during the delivery, the delivery must be terminated by caesarean section

Caesarean section is a method that is reserved only for exceptional cases. It can in no way serve as a method of facilitating childbirth.

The third period of labour: delivery of the placenta

The third period of labour lasts about 20 minutes.
At this stage of labour, the placenta, which has provided the baby's vital functions until birth, leaves.

A few minutes after birth, mild, painless contractions may occur.
During these, the placenta detaches from the uterine walls and moves into the vagina, where it can be pushed out.

After the placenta is delivered, the birth canal is checked, postpartum injuries are treated and an episiotomy is sutured.

How will you feel?

  • You will feel tired after the delivery is over
  • you may feel a surge of new energy
  • you will be thirsty and hungry
  • some women will get shivering
  • every woman who gives birth has a bloody vaginal discharge (lochia) like a heavy period
  • the immediate emotional reaction after childbirth is relaxation
  • impatience during delivery of the placenta and during treatment of postpartum injuries is common
  • some women feel a strong attachment to their partner and a strong emotional attachment to the baby
  • others tend to be more oblivious and resentful, especially after a difficult and prolonged labour
What can you do? What can your birth partner do? What can hospital staff do?
  • Help in pushing the placenta out - if they tell you to.
  • Be patient when checking and treating postpartum injuries and when suturing episiotomies.
  • Hold your baby in your arms.
  • Be proud of what you have achieved. Enjoy and relax.
  • Remember to thank your birth partner.
  • A woman deserves praise.
  • You should congratulate her on a fantastic performance.
  • Establish an emotional bond with your baby, take him in your arms and hug him.
  • If you have a camera, take a few pictures.
  • Inform people in your neighbourhood who are eagerly waiting for the happy news.
  • It helps in the delivery of the placenta.
  • In accordance with the recommendations of the Gynecological Society and the World Health Organization, keep the third period fundamentally active.
  • This means that after delivery of the fetus, you will be given a single intravenous injection of oxytocin.
  • This shortens the placental abruption time and the blood loss is significantly lower.
  • The placenta is examined to see if it is intact.
  • If there are any remnants left in the uterus, the obstetrician will remove them.
  • After the postpartum wounds are treated and the episiotomy is sutured, your lower body is washed.
  • They will put clean underwear on you and put a pad under you.
  • They monitor your general health.
  • After two hours, you will be transferred from the delivery room to your room in the sixth-grade ward.
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Interesting resources

  • Book: Nine Months of Questions and Answers (Heidi Murkoff, Arlene Eisenberg and Sandee Hethaway)
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